Introduction: The Recruiter Hate Phenomenon
Every now and then, I come across a construction leader who proudly declares that they “hate recruiters.”
They usually say things like:
❌ “Recruiters just waste my time.”
❌ “They send me garbage candidates.”
❌ “I don’t need some outsider telling me how to hire.”
❌ “They’re too expensive.”
Now, let’s be honest—not all recruiters are great. Some operate like resume spammers, chasing commissions instead of solving hiring problems.
But when a leader categorically hates recruiters, it usually says more about them than it does about recruiters.
💡 A leader’s attitude toward recruiters is often a reflection of their attitude toward hiring, leadership, and accountability.
So, what does it really mean when a leader says they “hate recruiters”? Let’s unpack it.
1. They Likely Struggle with Hiring—But Won’t Admit It
Many leaders who “hate recruiters” are the same ones who consistently struggle with hiring.
🚨 They take too long to fill roles.
🚨 They frequently make bad hires.
🚨 They have high turnover but blame it on employees instead of their hiring process.
Yet, instead of looking inward, they externalize their frustration onto recruiters.
💡 The truth? Hiring is a skill. If you’re bad at it, you will struggle—whether you work with a recruiter or not.
2. They Don’t Take Hiring as Seriously as They Should
When a leader dismisses recruiters, they’re often dismissing the entire hiring process as a priority.
❌ They see hiring as an operational burden, not a leadership function.
❌ They think hiring is just about filling empty seats, not building strong teams.
❌ They don’t invest time or effort into improving their hiring skills.
💬 As TJ Kastning put it:
“Hiring is the most important thing a leader does. To rush your hiring process, to not greatly invest in your skill set and perspective for hiring, is like trying to build an organization with balsa wood beams or on an unlevel foundation. It’s just difficult to build a company that way.”
🚨 Leaders who “hate recruiters” often don’t want to admit that hiring is something they need to take more seriously.
3. They Expect Miracles Without Putting in the Work
Some leaders hire recruiters not because they want a hiring partner—but because they want a shortcut.
They expect the recruiter to:
🚀 Magically deliver the perfect candidate in days.
🚀 Somehow know everything about their culture without ever discussing it.
🚀 Bring in top talent while the hiring manager stays disengaged.
Then, when that doesn’t happen, they blame the recruiter.
💡 Hiring is a collaborative process. If a leader isn’t willing to put in the time, no recruiter—no matter how skilled—can fix that.
4. They May Be Looking for a Scapegoat
It’s easy to blame recruiters when hiring doesn’t go well.
❌ The candidate didn’t work out? Must be the recruiter’s fault.
❌ We took too long to hire, and the candidate moved on? Recruiter’s problem.
❌ We still don’t have the perfect hire? Recruiters just don’t “get it.”
🚨 Blaming recruiters is an easy way for leaders to avoid taking responsibility for their own hiring process.
💡 A great leader owns hiring outcomes—good or bad.
5. They Might Have an Ego Problem
Some leaders reject recruiters because they believe they already know everything there is to know about hiring.
🚧 “I know my company better than any recruiter.”
🚧 “I’ve been hiring people for 20 years—I don’t need help.”
🚧 “Nobody can hire for my business better than me.”
Yes, leaders should know their business better than anyone. But that doesn’t mean they automatically know how to hire well.
📌 Hiring is a specialized skill.
📌 Recruiters provide valuable market insights that internal teams often lack.
📌 Even the best leaders benefit from external perspective and expertise.
💡 If you believe you know everything already, you’re shutting yourself off from opportunities to improve.
6. They Don’t See the Bigger Picture
A leader who “hates recruiters” probably doesn’t see hiring as a strategic function.
✅ They don’t see how better hires lead to stronger teams and more profitability.
✅ They don’t realize that bad hiring creates unnecessary turnover and financial waste.
✅ They don’t understand that building a business is really about building a great team.
💡 As TJ Kastning said:
“Even in construction, where you’d think the business is about building buildings, the leaders would be more well-served to concentrate on building teams that build buildings—rather than on building the buildings themselves.”
🚨 When a leader undervalues hiring, the entire company suffers.
What a Strong Leader Understands About Recruiters
💡 1. Recruiters Aren’t a Magic Bullet—They’re a Tool
- A recruiter is a force multiplier, not a fix-all solution.
- If your hiring process is broken, a recruiter won’t fix it—they’ll just expose the cracks faster.
💡 2. Good Recruiting Requires Collaboration
- If a leader wants a recruiter to succeed, they need to actively engage in the process.
- That means giving clear feedback, responding promptly, and treating hiring as a priority.
💡 3. Hiring Is a Leadership Function—Not an Admin Task
- Hiring isn’t just about filling positions—it’s about shaping the future of the company.
- Leaders who invest in hiring build strong, resilient, high-performing teams.
🚀 If you want to build a great company, take hiring seriously—and work with the right people to get it right.
Final Thoughts: If You “Hate Recruiters,” You Might Need to Look in the Mirror
📌 Not all recruiters are great. But if you categorically “hate recruiters,” ask yourself why.
❌ Are you frustrated because hiring isn’t working?
❌ Do you blame recruiters instead of looking at your own hiring process?
❌ Do you expect recruiting to be effortless while putting in minimal effort?
💡 Strong leaders don’t avoid recruiting partners—they leverage them.
Hiring is too important to get wrong. If you struggle with it, the solution isn’t avoiding recruiters—it’s finding the right recruiter and engaging in the process properly.
Need a Hiring Partner Who Actually Helps You Win?
At Ambassador Group, we work with construction leaders who:
✔️ Take hiring seriously and want to do it right.
✔️ Want real recruiting expertise—not just resume pushing.
✔️ Are ready to invest time in getting hiring right.
📍 Schedule a call here → Ambassador Group Exploratory Call 🚀
