Same Goal, Different Game: Two Clients, Two Outcomes

One client doubled down on control, the other on trust. Only one created a foundation for real growth.

April 18th, 2025

TJ Kastning

πŸ‘·β€β™‚οΈ Both wanted great hires. Only one got there without chaos.

Let’s talk about two real clients.

Client A: The Controller

Client A came to us because they were tired of making bad hires. They wanted help, fast. But the moment we kicked off, they began steering the ship.

  • β€œOnly send us local candidates.”
  • β€œDon’t talk to candidates before we do.”
  • β€œOur team doesn’t do structured interviews.”

They hired us for recruiting. But what they really wanted was staffing on their terms. Their rules. Their timeline. Their methods.

The result? A fractured process full of confusion. Candidates got mixed messages. Feedback loops broke. Interviewers ran wild without alignment. Offers stalled. Strong candidates dropped.
They didn’t hire badlyβ€”they just hired painfully. And they burned relationships in the process.

Worse still, this control mindset wasn’t isolated to hiring.
The way they treated us mirrored the way they led internally:

  • Reactive and rigid.
  • Top-down decision-making.
  • No space for partnership, nuance, or truth-telling.

And it showedβ€”low retention, high turnover, and a trail of frustrated employees.


⚠️ The Commercial GC Trap

This is especially common with large commercial general contractors. They think it’s smart business to engage a handful of recruiting firms at onceβ€”on their terms:

  • Mandated processes.
  • Fixed formats.
  • No room for each firm’s unique approach.

What actually happens?

  • Every firm gets flattened into the same generic model.
  • Unique capabilities get discarded.
  • Firms operate outside their zone of excellence.
  • And nobody does their best work.

The GC thinks they’re maximizing options. In reality, they’re diluting all value and devaluing themselves as a client. It becomes compliance-based vendor work instead of strategic partnership.

And then they wonder why they can’t attract top talent.
They have more leverage than is good for them.
Listening skills have eroded. And the cost is showing up in their teams, their hires, and their culture.

That’s why we don’t work with large commercial GCs who don’t listen.
It’s not personal. It’s just not effective.

Client B: The Partner

Client B also wanted to avoid bad hires. But they started by asking smart questions:

  • β€œHow do you prevent mismatches?”
  • β€œWhat does a strong interview process actually look like?”
  • β€œHow do we know if we’re part of the problem?”

They evaluated our process before hiring us. Vetted our systems. Then stepped back and let us run point.

When we sent feedback forms, they used them. When we proposed interview strategy, they adopted it. When we raised red flags, they listened.

πŸ—£οΈ β€œThe Ambassador Group team brought success to ours in many more ways than just finding the right person for the job. Their thorough process really defined what we needed in our candidates and our company to propel our growth.”
β€” Mike Aalgard, GM, Louis Ptak Construction

πŸ—£οΈ β€œWe didn’t just fill a roleβ€”we matured as a leadership team. That’s what great recruiters do. They hold up a mirror. I never expected to think so much.”

And just like with us, their leadership posture showed up everywhere else.

  • Clear expectations.
  • Honest feedback loops.
  • Empowered employees.
  • Team alignment on decisions.

They didn’t just make a good hireβ€”they created the conditions for that hire to thrive.


Hiring Is a Mirror

Every client teaches us something.

Some treat hiring like a transaction and struggle with the same control patterns that wear down their team.
Others treat it like a partnershipβ€”and lead in a way that unlocks performance across the board.

The recruiter relationship is often your canary in the coal mine.
If you don’t trust experts, delegate without clarity, or resist outside insightβ€”it probably shows up internally, too.


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